History has moved us to the present where still we have not learned to emotionally connect with one another in the way we each need. This is understandable, given our harsh past. As infants we cry until exhausted under the caring and watchful eyes of daycare. We receive our training at cold, mind dulling, schools, and we work in environments where innocently showing affection could lead to sexual harassment charges. We pretend to be 'normal'. The pretending and lies we tell, in an attempt to hide our uniqueness and to ‘fit in’ leave in their path unbearable loneliness. Perhaps after this generation and the next, far into more hundreds of years, we will learn to respect and cherish those things which make us unique, for it is our uniqueness that make us lovable.
Man and woman must join together realizing theirs is not a union if they act unequal as is taught. We must replace inequality with shared dreams and truth. Unequal partners are not partners and can not share anything of value. Mates must know what beliefs they hold close and let these beliefs be known to each. True love is possible today for those who have the energies for truth and prefer its reality to that of games and pretending.



